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“When you try your best, but you don’t succeed,” goes the opening verse of Coldplay’s Fix You, which perfectly encapsulates how it feels to be in a relationship that you know is going south, even though you aren’t compelled towards any kind of active troubleshooting. Keep a lookout for these five signs that could show, perhaps, that your relationship has run its course.
1. When spending time with your partner becomes a real drag
It’s normal to start feeling restless when you guys aren’t engaged in something exciting. But if you’ve been feeling this way for the past year or so and you get bored even when you’re simply chatting with your significant other, maybe your partner isn’t that significant to you anymore. The problem is real when you no longer enjoy even the little moments together.
2. When you realise you don’t know your partner anymore
It’s one thing to be unpredictable. It’s another to be a total stranger. Couples may unwittingly grow so far apart that one day, they realise they’re not the same people they once were, and certainly not the same people they once fell in love with. When your lover becomes a stranger, it’s time to pull the plug.
3. When you don’t trust each other
Trust that’s been broken (due to infidelity or lying) or that has never been there (due to insecurities) leads to the death of a relationship. We’re talking about the glue that holds two people together. If you find yourself unable to trust your companion, you’ll find yourself on a highway to relationship hell.
4. When you’ve been stuck in the “on again, off again” ditch for too long
We’re all familiar with the “break up and make up” routine, which can be equated to the “lather, rinse, repeat” cycle. No relationship is worth a lifetime of yo-yoing and heartbreaking uncertainty. It will do you both good to terminate the affair, along with its perpetual instability.
5. When you can’t imagine a future together
Perhaps you once imagined a forever with your lover, but lately, you’ve been doing things without him/her. When you can’t even bring yourself to schedule a date next month, let alone a one-year anniversary or an eventual marriage, despite having being in the relationship for a long while now, you’re probably in trouble.
It may feel as though you’re giving up on the romantic ideal of commitment, and that perhaps you haven’t tried hard enough – after all, maintaining a relationship requires a shedload of effort – but when love fades, it fades, and there’s nothing anyone can really do about it.
LunchClick is Singapore’s first female-centric dating app, developed by the dating experts behind the Lunch Actually Group, the biggest dating agency in South East Asia with over 10 years of proven track record. LunchClick is perfect for serious daters and singles looking to find love – we’re SDN (Social Development Network) accredited, and we manually approve all profiles to ensure that you only meet genuine & quality singles. No swiping, no chatting, just offline dates! What are you waiting for? Download the app on the Play Store or App Store today!